Planning for Divorce in Case Your Marriage Does not Work Out
On behalf of Gregory W. Stevens, Attorney at Law posted in blog on Tuesday, September 19, 2017.
One situation that many people in Utah overlook when planning their lives is divorce. While you are busy planning for your retirement, you should also think about how a divorce can affect you financially and your kids emotionally. Divorce may be the furthest thing from your mind. However, no matter the state of your relationship with your partner now, you should have an exit strategy so you do not lose control of your situation.
Ideally, you should take steps to protect yourself, finances and children before you marry. But it is not the end of the world if you wait until you have been married for several years. Here are some things for you to consider.Make Sure it is What You Want
When you get ready to file for divorce, make sure you are certain your relationship is over. Once you file the papers and inform your partner, you may not be able to reverse the pain and hurt they experience even if you both decide to work things out later.Meet With an Attorney
Meet with an attorney to discuss your situation and learn how you should approach your divorce. They can assess your circumstances and give you a more realistic view of how things can play out. An attorney can also guide you to keep you from making decisions that may have an adverse effect on your post-divorce lifestyle.Create Some Goals
You should have some idea of what you hope to achieve by divorcing your spouse. For example, you may be ready to start over with someone who returns your affections. Or, you may want to separate from your partner so you are no longer stuck in a relationship you feel is going nowhere. Regardless of your reasons, you should make a list of goals for divorce.Take Care of You
You need to be in your best shape emotionally in order for you to deal with your divorce situation. Take some time to get your thoughts and emotions together so you do not let the wrong ones affect your decisions during your divorce. If you have lingering issues about your spouse or have trouble getting in the right mindset, you may want to seek out counseling.
Your marriage may seem great now, but you should plan your exit strategy so that the possibility does not catch you unaware and unprepared. The more time you have to plan things out, the easier it will be for you to navigate through the divorce process and bounce back.